From Guesswork -> Buddies -> Guesswork?

last SG · 2007-10-25T12:23:57+00:00

Wah liao SC, what exactly do you wanna know? I'm a guo lai ren. I used to think platonic relationships can exist but now I dun believe so liao. I dunno about...

tare SG

hahah thread reallly kenna hijacked Laughing

SC, if the guy is not getting it hor ... i think nothing short of a "get-him-drunk-and-rape-him" will do Twisted Evil

seriously for me, i got a timeframe... if the initial stage no "chemistry", never will have... if bec buddy liao, never will have either... unlike pinky bear, i do believe platonic friendship... Mr. Green

elindra SG

Aiya I used to believe in platonic friendship till someone burst my bubble in a very bad way la

Now the platonic friendship I have are with guys who are attached and devoted to their other half or gay or just friends la not close enough to say very buddy buddy

Buddy Buddy kind after kenna burn liao dun have.

I read SC thread I think buddy buddy kind as can do alot of things together including sleeping on the same bed without sex or any funny things lor

I used to have such a friend but that is history la. Now we don't even talk

KittynMeow SG

Embarassed Razz

hahahahaha you've got a fellow "fan chang" one here... hahahahaha Laughing

KittynMeow SG

oh yes.... I absolutely agree... somehow they look more macho and manly than those korean / taiwanese boys.... Embarassed

elindra SG

Ya Embarassed
I always say I want to look at men who look like men
And not men that look like girly boys Laughing

KittynMeow SG

*ahem*

back to topic....

so far I haven't given up on platonic friends... i mean there are some occasions where platonic friendship developed into something else... and after that fell apart....

but so far for those cases, I'm still on talking terms with them... so it's back to platonic again...

of course, I wouldn't want to be stuck in trapped lift with them alone or stuck alone with them somewhere for a long time.... because sometimes I thought I can still feel some undercurrent tension and I definitely don't want to stir things up... esp when we have already moved on and each got our own bf/gf/ partners....

elindra SG

See the thing is the other party does not want things to be platonic again
The ridiculas thing is that to communicate sometimes I have to go through HIS COUSIN Rolling Eyes

I guess the good thing is that we no longer live along the same stretch of road

KittynMeow SG

understandable… it’s like to keep it platonic, there are now 101 terms and conditions attached to it….. haha

elindra SG

Which seriously becomes like a business contract Laughing

uniquelyme SG

wOopps.. so far no 'successful cases' yet huh? Neutral

elindra SG

For it to be successful, the other party has to return the feelings lor
Even if the other person sees you in a new light, that doesn't mean that they will have special feelings for u

choco B SG

I'm thinking what is missing is the SEXUAL TENSION.

You know the spark and fizzle, uncomfortably hot under the collar itch in pants kind of feeling.

He/she's got to create an opportunity to get him/her alone, get him in a bit of a sexy situation. Flirt unabashedly. Show cleavage if you need to, now is not the time to be Miss Decorum. For guy, be extra chivalrous, show extra attention, make the next step e.g. hold her back to guide her etc, make her wonder " What's up with him? could it be....? "

Yaya once the fire gets going just let it burrrn... Mr. Green

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